New mothers who think they should be perfect parents might be at risk for postpartum depression, a new study suggests, wrote MSNBC.com July 7:
The results show that a type of perfectionism in which individuals feel others expect them to be perfect, known as “socially-prescribed perfectionism,” is associated with postpartum depression for first-time mothers.
The study is one of the first to look how perfectionism affects women’s ability to adjust to life after childbirth. It involved 100 first-time mothers in Toronto, Canada, who filled out questionnaires to assess their level and type of perfectionism as well as feelings of depression.
The link between perfectionism and postpartum depression was strongest amongst those who try to deal with perfectionism by appearing as if they don’t have a problem.
“What this suggests is that there might be some new mothers out there who might seem like everything is fine, in fact it might seem like everything is perfect,” said Gordon Flett, a professor of psychology [and Canada Research Chair] at York University in Canada. “[But] in fact it’s just the opposite, that they’re feeling quite badly but they’re pretty good at covering it up.”
This finding is particularly concerning, because it means friends and family might not realize their loved one is suffering from depression.
“This tendency to put on this front usually means that people don’t tell other people when they’re doing badly, so somebody might not know that a young women is having difficulty; they might have no clue whatsoever,” Flett said. “And there’s sadly some cases where the family says ‘We thought everything was fine,’ and the next thing we know, the person is no longer with us,” he said.
Posted by Elizabeth Monier-Williams, research communications officer, with files courtesy of YFile– York University’s daily e-bulletin.