Relationships in Frasier

Besides the individual characters of the show, Frasier works due to the interactions between these characters. What is interesting however, is besides the denotative notion of the relationship (father to son, brother to brother), there are also many connotative ideas behind the relationships.

• Frasier and Niles
• Frasier and Martin
• Niles and Daphne
• Frasier and Roz

The interaction between Frasier and Niles is unique in that they banter as if they were in a romantic relationship themselves. While not entirely equal to a husband and wife connection, there is a dominant (Frasier) and submissive (Niles) context to their relationship. Of course, this works due to the fact that they are brothers and thus the interaction becomes comical. However, it is interesting to note that several of the shows writers are openly gay.

While the roles of father and son are established between Frasier and Martin, there is an interesting switch in terms of control in this connection. In Frasier's childhood, Martin would be the provider and Frasier and Niles would be the dependents. However, since Martin is retired and disabled, he has become the dependent. This uneasy switch in roles often lead to arguments between father and son, both of whom are stubborn and unyielding. The relationship is most represented in the show by Martin's chair.

Until recently, the relationship (or lack thereof) between Niles and Daphne could be described as an unattainable fantasy. For several seasons, Niles view of Daphne was that of the prize on a pedastel that he could not have (whether due to the fact that he was married, she was involved with someone else, etc). This taboo of lusting after another woman (despite being married) only increased his desire for her. However, the show's writers finally allowed the two to come together amidst their involvement in other relationships. In a society that attempts to exemplify moral standards, this certainly goes against them and the sanctity of marriage.

While Frasier attempts to be the sophisticated scholar, Roz is the exact opposite - the blue collar worker who's willing to roll up her sleeves, get messy and get the job done. This distinction between these co-workers brings to light the class struggle that exists in Frasier. While Frasier and Niles represent (or try to) the social and economic elites, Roz, Marty and Daphne fall into the middle class category. It is also interesting to note that Frasier and Niles come from this middle class, and strive to break away and move up the social ladder.

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